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Inside: Find our interview with a working mom of three who has left the corporate world and started a successful online business with her husband. She gamely answered all our questions about her motherhood journey! Ask your own mother and other new moms these questions if you like!
Just the other day, I got to talk to a best friend (one of my closest friends) from across the country.
He mentioned how it was so hard to maintain a household, so he was really amazed at how someone like me with two toddlers under 3 could still write, manage a business, work full-time in a hospital setting, and still function on my regular days.
I just chuckled and told him, “I guess everything they say about mothers is true! They most definitely can handle everything, no matter what.”
That statement from him may have been nothing out of the ordinary for any mother, but it sparked a desire in me.
A desire to bravely approach one of the most, if not the most, encouraging mom bloggers I know for an interview…

“Being a mother means loving your child. It’s learning your child’s love language and understanding how they need to be loved.”
~Suzi Whitford
- Motherhood Questions with Suzi
- Welcome Suzi!
- Please define motherhood in your own words.
- What advice can you give our mommy readers?
- What was the best advice on motherhood you ever received?
- What has been your greatest fear while pregnant?
- Do you spank your children?
- Do you believe in time-outs?
- What is your most used item from the baby registry?
- What do you think is the least useful item?
- What is your favorite go-to dinner recipe when you are short on time?
- Most of us (if not all) know that you are a mom and an established blogger. What would you do differently if you had to do it all over again?
- This is a little politically controversial, but I want to ask it anyway. You can choose not to answer, though. What is your take on our country’s maternity leave law?
- Last Thoughts on my Interview with Suzi about Motherhood
- More Motherhood Queries We Need to Address
Motherhood Questions with Suzi
The interview consists of the best questions about motherhood I can think of and everything related to it.
Some are a little controversial, while others are more mundane, but the primary purpose of the interview is to inspire all moms to speak their minds.
So right before Thanksgiving Day, I emailed her. I took the chance and didn’t overthink it at all. I went ahead and hit the send button, never really believing that she would answer right back.
Before this interview, I reached out to her once about some page speed queries, and she was also quick to respond. I was even dumbfounded that her husband was also genuinely accommodating despite it all!
Are you intrigued yet? Let me introduce you to my favorite mom blogger. I have been following her since I started my blogging journey.
She used to be an industrial engineer working for Fortune 100 companies.
She is a mother to two beautiful girls and a handsome baby boy, a wife to a funny (at least that was how he appeared to be when he sent me that video about page speed two weeks ago) and wonderful man, and the creator of the wildly popular site Start a Mom Blog.
Without further ado, please help me welcome Suzi Whitford!

Welcome Suzi!
Thank you for agreeing to do this interview. I know it is Thanksgiving Week, and it’s super busy in the Whitford household, but you still graciously made time for me and my readers.
For that, I am truly grateful and extremely honored.
You gamely answered these most-asked motherhood questions, though some were a tad bit controversial.
Here’s my interview with Suzi, everyone. Enjoy!
Please define motherhood in your own words.
Being a mother means loving your child. It’s learning your child’s love language and understanding how they need to be loved.
There could not be a more accurate statement! Understanding our children’s love languages will make it much easier to communicate with them. Actions speak much louder than words! Allowing them to experience our unconditional love in any way possible is essential.
What advice can you give our mommy readers?
Motherhood is hard. It is very rewarding. But it is also very difficult to sacrifice yourself daily to love another. Don’t be discouraged when you find it hard to be a mom. We all go through it.
Love your child and you’re being the best mom.
Yes, I completely agree with this. Motherhood is the greatest gift. While it may be difficult at times, it is the most rewarding thing ever.
What was the best advice on motherhood you ever received?
It’s that time passes quickly—soon your little ones won’t need you that much anymore.
This hits close to home. As a mother who still works full-time and takes her kids to daycare regularly, I am speechless.

What has been your greatest fear while pregnant?
Losing my baby. My first birth was also very scary and ended up in a C-section.
Tell me I am copying you, but I have to tell you that we have the very same fear. My firstborn baby boy was through C-Section as well. I was in labor for 22 hours, and he was already in distress. His heart was beating really fast, so my baby doctor decided to perform a C-section.
Do you spank your children?
I won’t lie; sometimes I really want to. But I know it’s just my own anger, and I’m getting out of control of my own emotions. I may have slipped from time to time, but I don’t like it, and it’s not effective.
So when emotions escalate, I try to find a minute to leave the room, take a few deep breaths, and come back as a calm but firm mom in control of my emotions.
I applaud you, Suzi. I lose my cool from time to time, which results in a light spanking on my little boy’s behind. Raising my little humans has been my biggest challenge, but motherhood is the best thing that ever happened to me.
Do you believe in time-outs?
I believe in mommy and child time-outs. We all need a moment to cool down and recollect. It’s not the mean “Go to your room, missie!” It’s taking her to her room, letting her know I love her, and she can come out when she feels better. 99% of the time, she just needs a minute to think and comes out happy again.
I have never tried this approach. Maybe someday.

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What is your most used item from the baby registry?
My favorite thing from the baby registry was the Aveeno Calming Comfort Bath. My kids still use the same body wash to this day. It helps them calm down in time for bed, so it is part of our bedtime routine. I love the smell of it too!
What do you think is the least useful item?
Truth be told, I used this a lot in my first baby’s first months. He was born during the winter season, and I was still the novice mommy I was then. Ha!
What is your favorite go-to dinner recipe when you are short on time?
Pizza. I love pizza and burgers, and Chick-fil-A, and Nutella, and coffee. I think I’m really hungry right now.
Pizza for the win! The Mortellaro household loves pizza. It’s simple to prepare, and it’s mommy’s favorite food to make in a hurry.  I also make this quick and easy spaghetti recipe that my kids enjoy.
Most of us (if not all) know that you are a mom and an established blogger. What would you do differently if you had to do it all over again?
I would start blogging sooner. It’s tricky to find time to blog as a mom of three, so I do it in the margins and with a lot of help from my husband.
I never really thought that I would even start blogging. I just had this idea of blogging over three years ago, and I still couldn’t believe I acted upon it.

Related article: The Best Gift Ideas for New Moms
This is a little politically controversial, but I want to ask it anyway. You can choose not to answer, though. What is your take on our country’s maternity leave law?
Oh, I thought the spanking question was controversial. Hopefully, I don’t get too many mean comments below. Just being honest here.
Regarding the maternity leave law, I received 3 months when I was in corporate. That’s very short. Your baby is still so tiny at 3 months old. I wish it was longer. Moms need at least a year to adjust to motherhood.
Honestly, that is why I love blogging so much for moms. You’re able to stay at home with your kids and still make an income. It takes time and a lot of work, but golly, it’s better than going to a corporate job with limited income and strict hours.
Well, who is going to disagree with that? Not me! Three months is really short!
Last Thoughts on my Interview with Suzi about Motherhood
As you can see, there is nothing impossible if you just ask! Suzi was so gracious about answering all these questions about motherhood.
Quite honestly, she could have denied my request. I am so glad that women like her exist!
Help me thank her! Let’s check her out at Start A Mom Blog and sign up for her weekly correspondence. You won’t regret it!
She shares time management and productivity tips with busy moms like us and has in-depth courses about starting a successful mom blog if you ever plan to begin one.
Disclaimer: Suzi Whitford did not pay me to promote her. I am doing it by choice because she has been a tremendous help.
It is such an honor, Suzi. Again, thank you for lending us a moment of your precious time. I hope this won’t be the last.
Love,

More Motherhood Queries We Need to Address
What questions about motherhood do you hear regularly? Share it with us in the comment section below. We’d love to know!
Additionally, if you want meaningful conversations with other family members, the list of questions above is a satisfactory place to start at family gatherings.
You could also throw in the following open-ended questions:
- What kind of mom do you hope to be?
- What aspect of your childhood did you wish to weave into how you raised your own children?
- What is your favorite childhood memory?
- What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
- What important lessons about motherhood would you share with your younger self?
- What is the best piece of advice you can give a new parent?
- What is your proudest moment as a mother?
- When was the last time you went out to meet up with friends?
- How do you spend quality time with your children?
- Do you think your children believe you’re the best mother?
- Did you suffer from postpartum depression?
- Do you still go on date nights with your spouse after having kids?
- Do you ever get any alone time?
Thank you!!! <3
No, thank you! This is the least that I can do for everything you are doing for us, Suzi. Thank you for stopping by!